Sticks Break Bones But Words Wound Deeply
In todays society we are quick to judge others and speak our minds. Often times negatively. Some people are so angry and bitter that they are ready to strike out at everyone.“When words are many, sin is not absent.” (Proverbs10:19)
Research shows that hurtful words are stored in the brain’s memories, a pain matrix if you will. When triggered it reminds us to avoid painful situations and people in the future. Those words can scar you emotionally for life.
Does being a Christian make any difference in the kinds of things you choose to do or say? It should. “Test everything. Hold on to the good. Avoid every kind of evil.” (1 Thessalonians 5:21-22) “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.” (Ephesians 4:31) Be so sensitive to everyone’s needs, hurts, and disappointments. Let no unkind words come from your mouth and heart.
“‘You have heard that is said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the the evil and the good, and sends rain on on the righteous and the unrighteous.’” (Matthew 5:43-45) Jesus pointed out in the Sermon on the Mountto love the people who treat you right but the hard part comes in the commandment to love those who are not so nice.
King Solomon wrote: “Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” (Proverbs 12:18) We desire words of encouragement, understanding, and reassurance. A lot of times all we need is a kind word to pick us up or get us through the day. “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” (Ephesians 4:29)
“Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.” (Colossians 4:6) “Be very careful, then, how you live – not as unwise but as wise” (Ephesians 5:15) “Whoever guards his mouth and tongue keeps his soul from troubles” (Proverbs 21:23) Always be vigilant and evaluate your behavior and what you say to others. A sharp tongue leaves a scar, while a helpful word heals the heart.
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